In the shadow of loss, a mother’s long search for happiness

Published Sun, 24 Nov 2024 17:16:48 GMT

In the shadow of loss, a mother’s long search for happiness AJIJIC, Mexico (AP) — There’s a look Sandy Phillips came to know each time she arrived somewhere a gunman had made famous. Her road trip through mass shooting sites went on for a decade and always seemed to have a new stop. When she reached it, she’d lock eyes with someone and see the catatonia, as plain as the weight of every leaden step they’d taken since the news that upended their life.She, too, had inched through days when all the world’s laughter went silent and its beauty was lost. In a morning fog, she’d question if it all was a nightmare, and in the black of night, when the grisly visions clawed her awake, she’d lie there wishing it was she who had died. Life became a torturous cycle punctuated by her own sobbing. She was sure she was creeping toward insanity.Now she found herself in Newtown or Parkland or Uvalde or whatever fresh hell had just been put on the map. She had lessons to share, advice that could only be amassed by someone who’d lived through the same. So, she’d...

Abuse victims say gun surrender laws save lives. Will the Supreme Court agree?

Published Sun, 24 Nov 2024 17:16:48 GMT

Abuse victims say gun surrender laws save lives. Will the Supreme Court agree? As Janet Paulsen prepared to leave her husband, who had become increasingly volatile over their 15-year marriage, she slipped down to his gun safes one night while he slept to try to change the combination locks.“There were 74 firearms in my house,” said Paulsen, who was stunned by how many guns she found, but could not figure out how to change the codes. “When I went to get my protection order, I brought pictures of all of those firearms with me.”Georgia, where she lives, is not among the 21 states with gun surrender laws that can force people to relinquish their weapons while they are deemed a risk to themselves or others. So Paulsen’s husband, whom she accused of threatening and erratic behavior, was only ordered to stay away from her and their 13-year-old twin boys until a court hearing.That changed a few days later when she said he tried to track them through a phone locator app, a violation of the protection order that prompted a misdemeanor charge, two hours in jail and a cou...

Veterans are more likely than most to kill themselves with guns. Families want to keep them safe.

Published Sun, 24 Nov 2024 17:16:48 GMT

Veterans are more likely than most to kill themselves with guns. Families want to keep them safe. FLINT, Texas (AP) — She leaned out of the tent at a small-town summer festival, hoping someone would stop to ask about her tattoos, her T-shirt, the framed pictures of her son on a table in the back of the booth.Barbie Rohde has made herself a walking billboard for this cause. She feels called to say the words, as much as they sometimes rattle the people who stop at her booth: “veteran suicide.”A man in an Army cap recoiled and walked away. His wife said she was sorry, he suffers from post-traumatic stress disorder and struggles to speak of it.“I worry for him and for us every day,” she said.Rohde reached underneath her display tables, grabbed a gun lock and wrapped it in a blue bandana, printed with the phone number for the Department of Veterans Affairs crisis line: call 988, press 1.“Here’s some free goodies for you,” she said, and tucked it discreetly into the bag with two T-shirts the woman bought.Rohde runs the most active chapter of a nonprofit called Mission 22, aimed at end...

For parents who’ve been through shootings, raising kids requires grappling with fears

Published Sun, 24 Nov 2024 17:16:48 GMT

For parents who’ve been through shootings, raising kids requires grappling with fears LOUISVILLE, Kentucky (AP) — By the time Hollan Holm pulls the family minivan into Chickasaw Park, the buzz rising from a crowd clustered around a large picnic shelter makes clear this afternoon’s story-sharing is already underway.In the thick heat just outside the pavilion, a youth football coach recounts the grief of losing his 19-year-old son, shot dead in the parking lot of a local liquor store in 2012. Under the rafters, a mother of five, infant son balanced on her hip, recalls her 15-year-old cousin, gunned down just across the park last December.Holm also carries a story of trauma. But it’s from his own youth, when it was shattered by gunshots.“Dad, are you speaking today?” asks his daughter, Sylvia, a sixth grader wearing a T-shirt with a picture of Pakistani activist Malala Yousafzai, shot by a Taliban fighter at 15 for asserting girls’ right to an education.“They’ve got other folks lined up,” says Holm, who a generation ago survived one of the first school mass shootings to...

Two pastors worry for their congregants’ safety. Are more guns the answer or the problem?

Published Sun, 24 Nov 2024 17:16:48 GMT

Two pastors worry for their congregants’ safety. Are more guns the answer or the problem? NIAGARA FALLS, N.Y. (AP) — Inside the columned church on the corner, the rich tones of the organ have wrapped congregants in their embrace. The time has come for the Rev. Jimmie Hardaway Jr. to preach the lessons embodied by the Prince of Peace.If only the world outside Trinity Baptist’s stained-glass windows were a more peaceful one. Alas, it is not.So when Hardaway rises to the pulpit this Sunday morning – weeks after a 24-year-old man was shot to death in the street two blocks from the chapel, and days after a mass shooting claimed six lives at a church-run school in Tennessee – he carries a .380 caliber semiautomatic pistol concealed in the pinstriped folds of his suit.“I’m really not free if I have to sit here and worry about threats to a congregation,” says Hardaway, one of several religious leaders who sued New York officials last fall after lawmakers restricted guns in houses of worship. He notes the similarities between Trinity’s worshippers and those at a historic Black ch...

A UN report urges Russia to investigate an attack on a Ukrainian village that killed 59 civilians

Published Sun, 24 Nov 2024 17:16:48 GMT

A UN report urges Russia to investigate an attack on a Ukrainian village that killed 59 civilians KYIV, Ukraine (AP) — U.N investigators on Tuesday urged Russia to acknowledge responsibility for a missile strike on a Ukrainian village that killed 59 civilians, conduct a transparent investigation into what happened, provide reparations for victims and hold those responsible to account.The strike on a cafe in the village of Hroza on Oct. 5 was one of the deadliest strikes since the Kremlin’s forces launched a full-scale invasion 20 months ago. Whole families perished while attending a wake for a local soldier who died fighting Russian troops. The blast killed 36 women, 22 men and an 8-year-old boy. Numerous bodies were found torn to pieces, and it took nearly a week to identify all the dead. The U.N. Human Rights Monitoring Mission in Ukraine said in a report published Tuesday it “has reasonable grounds to believe” that a Russian Iskander missile — a short-range precision-guided ballistic weapon — probably caused the blast in Hroza.The extensive damage and weapon debris at the sce...

TMX Group reports Q3 profit and revenue up from year ago

Published Sun, 24 Nov 2024 17:16:48 GMT

TMX Group reports Q3 profit and revenue up from year ago TORONTO — TMX Group Ltd. reported its third-quarter profit rose compared with a year ago, helped by higher revenue, partly offset by an increase in operating expenses.The operator of the Toronto Stock Exchange says its earned net income attributable to equity holders totalled $85.3 million or 31 cents per diluted share for the quarter ended Sept. 30.The result was up from a profit of $81.0 million or 29 cents per diluted share in the same quarter last year.Revenue totalled $287.3 million, up from $266.8 million a year ago.On an adjusted basis, TMX Group says it earned 35 cents per diluted share, up from an adjusted profit of 34 cents per diluted share in the same quarter last year.The adjusted profit matched the average analyst estimate compiled by financial markets data firm Refinitiv, while the average forecast for revenue had been for $292.6 million. This report by The Canadian Press was first published Oct. 31, 2023.Companies in this story: (TSX:X)The Canadian Press

Neighborhood in Taylor references Matthew Perry sitcom

Published Sun, 24 Nov 2024 17:16:48 GMT

Neighborhood in Taylor references Matthew Perry sitcom TAYLOR, Texas (KXAN) – As fans across the world mourn the loss of actor Matthew Perry who died Saturday, those who visit one part of Taylor are reminded of his work every time they look at a street sign. Street names in the northwest Taylor neighborhood reference familiar characters and moments from the 1990s television show "Friends". Perry starred as Chandler Bing on the NBC sitcom. Texas neighborhood has ‘Friends’-themed street names Names like Pivot Street, Yemen Road, Janice Road, Marcel Court, Onna Street, Break Avenue and Gunther Way. "I was walking and suddenly realized the names of the streets were named after Friends," said Laura Hovan Oehler. "I put it together with Onna. O, N, N, A, I thought that was strange.  Onna Break, Janice. So yeah I did finally put it together."If you’re a “Friends” fan, then you remember the pivot scene, when Ross asks for help moving a sofa upstairs. When Ross, Rachel and Chandler start attempting to turn up the stairs, Ross starts y...

Bastrop elementary school unveils vending machine for books

Published Sun, 24 Nov 2024 17:16:48 GMT

Bastrop elementary school unveils vending machine for books BASTROP, Texas (KXAN) – Lost Pines Elementary has a new vending machine, according to the Bastrop Independent School District. The district posted Tuesday morning that the school unveiled the machine that will vend books instead of snacks. The district said the machine will dispense a book of choice to students when they are "recognized for being safe, respectful, & responsible". Book vending machine at Lost Pines Elementary. (Courtesy: Bastrop ISD)Book vending machine at Lost Pines Elementary. (Courtesy: Bastrop ISD)Book vending machine at Lost Pines Elementary. (Courtesy: Bastrop ISD)Book vending machine at Lost Pines Elementary. (Courtesy: Bastrop ISD)KXAN has reached out to the district for more details about the machine and will update this article when we get the information.

Head of state licensing department resigns

Published Sun, 24 Nov 2024 17:16:48 GMT

Head of state licensing department resigns AUSTIN (KXAN) – The head of the Texas state agency in charge of 38 license programs left his job, the agency said Monday. The Texas Department of Licensing and Regulation said Executive Director Mike Arismendez resigned. TDLR did not give a reason for the resignation. TDLR said Christina Kaiser, TDLR Senior Deputy Executive Director, has been temporarily designated as Acting Executive Director of the agency. Investigations: New law takes away some Texas veterinary board authority temporarily According to the announcement, Arismendez became Deputy Executive Director at TDLR in 2019 and Executive Director in 2022. Before joining the agency, Arismendez was a member of the Texas Commission of Licensing and Regulation from 2005 until 2019 and served as commission chair from 2014 until 2019.TDLR said Kaiser has worked at the agency since 2000, serving as Director of Enforcement from 2002 to 2019. Kaiser was promoted to Deputy Executive Director in 2019 and Arismendez promoted her to Sen...